Caesar Kalinowski

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Discipleship and Mission Made Simple

How Our Family Really Learned To Pull Together

Wouldn’t it be great if our families (your’s and mine) lived in such a way that we actually showed what God’s original idea for family was–and his true heart for everyone? Yes it would…and it can!

I’m not much of a sports guy and never really have been. I tried my hand at various sports as a kid and while in middle and high school, but alas, I had neither the genes nor ambition to be very good or super-competitive at sports. Now my son, on the other hand, is more of a natural athlete—especially when compared to me. (more…)

7 Things to Know Before You Get Married

Preparing for marriage can feel exciting—and a little overwhelming. Whether you’re single, engaged, or helping your kids navigate this season, understanding what truly matters before saying “I do” can make all the difference.  

In this episode, Caesar and his wife, Tina, share lessons from over 30 years of marriage and raising three adult kids who love Jesus. You’ll discover how God’s timing, wisdom, and grace shape healthy relationships that last.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

  • The key differences between dating, courtship, and engagement—and why they matter.
  • The true purpose of engagement and how it prepares couples for marriage.
  • 7 areas of life to align and talk through before setting the date.
  • Why biblical marriage reflects God’s design for love between a man and a woman

Get started here…

Two gold wedding rings rest on the open pages of a Bible highlighting verses about love.

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The Biggest Mistake You Can Make in Disciple-making!

Discipleship and mission gets derailed because we forget to begin at the beginning or “begin to begin again”. I can’t believe how many times I’ve made this huge mistake in my disciple-making and development of leaders. [You can avoid this!]

A disciple-making analogy: You take your kids out to your garage, let’s say they are ages 8, 10 and 12 years old. And out there you show them a catalog with a picture of a beautiful armoire or large wooden cabinet.

Super detailed and inlayed and gorgeous! Next to the armoire is a stack of very nice wood and veneers and there are lathes and table saws. Every kind of woodworking tool imaginable. Then you tell your kids to get after it and start making armoires. Maybe a dresser or two while they’re at it.

But here’s the problem: they have never been taught how to make furniture or build cabinets. They were never apprenticed into these types of skills. (more…)

Daddy-Daughter Dates Change Your Family Legacy

Life moves fast, and our kids grow up before we know it. As parents, we often wonder if we’re connecting with their hearts in ways that will last a lifetime. For me, one of the most valuable things I ever did with my daughters was taking them out on regular Daddy-daughter dates.  

In this episode of the Everyday Disciple Podcast, I share why these one-on-one times gave us memories we’ll always cherish, strengthened our friendship, and built a bond of trust that continues to shape our lives today. More than anything, our dates helped my daughters know their beauty and value—and that they are a priority in my life.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

  • 5 key things every dad should know when dating his daughter
  • The right age to start (and why it’s never too late)
  • How intentional “daddy time” shows her she’s a priority
  • Why these dates set her expectations for future relationships
  • How to grab my proven Daddy-Daughter Date Checklist for free.

Get started here…

A dad and daughter share a playful tea party picnic, showing the joy of intentional family time.

Each week the Big 3 will give you immediate action steps to get you started. 

Please check out this new episode and be sure to get this week’s FREE Download of the Big 3.

Are You Beating Yourself Up With Religion?

If you’re not experiencing the joy and freedom you once did in your faith, it may be that you are beating yourself up with religion instead of believing and living out of the true gospel of grace. Let me explain:

I’ve heard it said that religion is a set of practices and beliefs–a system–of pursuing and maintaining a relationship with God.

Ok, sounds technically right…  (more…)

ABOUT ME

I am the author of the top selling book, The Gospel Primer. My latest books, Transformed and Small is Big, Slow is Fast came out recently on Zondervan.

I help those with a high commitment to intentional living in the areas of their discipleship, family and mission acquire the leadership skills and tools necessary to succeed and leave a lasting legacy.